Carol ItohIs Your Mate a Cheater?
October 13th 2009 11:19
Some men enjoy the suspense and the deception that goes along with an affair. If he is the type of person who enjoys high-risk sports, he probably has the potential to be a cheater.
2. Did your spouse have a great deal of sex before marriage?
If he had multiple relationships and lots of sex before marriage, he probably will have a difficult time confining his attention to one person.
3. Does your spouse have a lot of friends of the opposite sex?
It's a common starting place for affairs. Before you know it, the friendship has morphed into a friendship with benefits.
4. Does your spouse have friends of the same sex that cheat on their spouses?
Peer pressure is very much alive and well in adulthood. It's only going to be a matter of time before he's doing the same thing.
5. Did your spouse have a parent who cheated?
If he had a father who cheated and a mother who did nothing about it, he'll expect the same from you. If you complain about it, he can't understand what the problem is, because that is what happened in his family circle.
6. Did your spouse cheat in previous relationships?
If he cheated in previous relationships and there were no negative consequences, he'll probably do it again. Consequences can include: sexually transmitted diseases, loss of a spouse, financial costs through divorce and more. Cheaters become repeaters if they've never suffered any negative consequences because of their actions. Why would he stop cheating?
7. Does your spouse feel like infidelity is no big deal?
If this is true, he probably is a potential cheater.
I hope this answers your questions because there is nothing worse than not knowing!
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