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The Best Places To Meet Singles

September 22nd 2008 16:14
Where to find love? If you are leery of the web then I suggest some of the best places are right in your own neighborhood. In my opinion some of the best places to find true long lasting love and romance can be at some form of club or socials. This could be a sports club, a debating society, a history club, a music club, a youth club or at one of the other many different types of club that are in your local area. Which club or clubs you choose to join will depend, of course, on the things that are of interest to you. Churches are a good place to start too. Many have singles night or activities that are geared just for the single members of their parishes. I also know it’s worn out but the grocery store is a good place too. A single man can be spotted easily enough. He usually has only a few items and looks lost if he is buying more than milk, cereal, and bread. But oddly enough, I have found the library is a nice place too. If you’re young they hang there doing school work and if you’re more mature the intellectual type are often found there. My best advice is to get out of the house and get involved in community activities and you are sure to run into plenty of singles looking for love as well. If you sit home alone that is exactly where you will end up… home all alone! Now get up, fix yourself up and get out there and mingle!
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13 Ways To Get Him To Notice You

September 20th 2008 06:10
Flirting is an art form prefected long ago by our ancesters. They knew the power of sly glances and smiles quickly hidden behind a fan as a way to intrique a man. But the ways to be noticed have changed. So have to reasons to get a man's attention, make sure you are clear abour your intentions before you begin in an effort to avoid embarrassment later.

1. Be sure that his attention is what you want. Don't try to get a guy to look your way, getting his attention and just to feel good about yourself. You don't want to lead someone on like a puppy taken out for a walk. You could end up in a very awkward or uncomfortable situation--see the Warnings below. Also, don't use his attention just because you're joking around with your friend. Don't laugh really loudly at a joke just to get his attention.


2. Be yourself. Everyone probably says this, but it's true! No guy wants a girl to pretend she is something she's not. As a general rule, guys don't expect girls to change. Resist the temptation to put on a show or to do anything that just isn't you just to get his attention.
Flirting


3. Get a new look. Don't change who you are (you never want to do that because you'll actually end up changing yourself) just try something different; if he doesn't like you for who you are let him be. Try a new hairstyle, new clothes, etc. It's a good idea to change things up once in a while, just because variety's the spice of life, and it might help you catch his eye. Try being that girl who is different from all the other okay looking girls giving him the eyes, because beauty is common, but a good outlook and a great energy are very rare.

4. Smile and make eye contact. Whether closed-mouth or open-mouth, do it. Unless it really makes you feel artificial, learn how to shoot people a reassuring smile, letting them know that you're a happy and confident person who wants to enjoy life. The idea is to communicate that you're inviting their company.

5. Flirt. Do it as little or as much as you want, but remember that too much flirting (especially with other guys) will likely get him to take notice, but perhaps not in a good way. If he reacts and you don't think its real (he's just doing it because you're there and you're a girl and he thinks he can do better, let him know he can't). If he is faking it, call his bluff and say something that makes him know you don't think he is 'all that'. For example, if he comes close, pull a face and offer him gum. This will unbalance his ego.

6. Hang out with him often; you don't always want to be hanging around because you might look like an annoying bug that's always around and never goes away. Start slowly like a movie or party try not to make it so noticeable cause he might not be interested.

7.*Whisper Whisper* Talk to him. Try to get to know him a little by discussing things you have in common. A good way to start a conversation is to ask him a question. Listen to him and don't interrupt him when he is talking. You could even compliment him or ask for help. A good opener is spray two different perfumes on each wrist, then go up to him and ask him his favorite. This should get him to talk to you. Also be friendly to his friends to help him feel more comfortable around you. Some guys don't notice girls unless they talk to the guy.

8. Be assertive. You are the girl. You have the power. A lot of guys are shy and awkward around girls they like, so don't hold back. Do what you want to do. Boys like a powerful girl. Be decisive. Tell him what you want him to do, etc.--just don't get too bossy! Assertive and aggressive are two very different things, learn the difference and never confuse them.

9. Make him feel special. There's got to be a reason that you want him to notice you, and that's because you noticed him first. Let him know--subtly--that you're interested in who he is, and that you sincerely want to get to know him better.

10. Be brave. Stand up for who you are, and what you believe in. Ultimately, this will catch the attention and respect of someone who is going to work well for you, even if it turns out not to be this guy.

11.Don't be a slob! It's a real turn-off for a guy when he notices a girl hasn't brushed her hair or wears the same outfit every other day. Clothes, makeup, and jewelry are the typical items many guys expect girls to wear. Even if you don't fall within the typical expectations, just looking presentable is always desirable--irrespective of who is the guy or girl. Being clean and smelling nice is always attractive.

12. Just Talk To Him. When it comes down to it, talking to a guy, and flirting with him will get his attention, and if it doesn't then nothing will.

13. Walk in front of him. It may be very simple, but it works. When coming out of the class, or playing in gym class, just walk in front of him, and he should be able to notice you. If he walks in front of you a lot, he probably likes you.You really don't need to watch your outfit just your makeup and stuff because if a guy really likes you he won't really care what you wear and i doubt other boys will notice you.
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The 7 Kinds Of Sexual Intercourse

September 19th 2008 04:11
Recent research shows that there are 7 kinds of sexual intercourse:
Intercourse


The 1st kind is called: Smurf Sex.

This is when you first meet someone and you both go at it until you are blue in the face.

The 2nd kind is called: Kitchen Sex.

This is when you have been with your partner for a short time and you are so easily turned on by your partner, you will have sex anywhere, even in the kitchen.

The 3rd kind is called: Bedroom Sex.

This is when you have been with your partner for a while and the sex has become routine and usually only occurs in your bedroom.

The 4th kind is called: Social Security Sex.

This is when you get a little each fortnight, but not enough to live on

The 5th kind is called: Religious Sex.

This is when you get Nun in the morning, Nun in the afternoon and Nun at night. (Very Popular)

The 6th kind is called: Hallway Sex.

This is after you have been having the 5th kind too long and when you pass each other in the hallway, you both say, "screw you."

The 7th and last kind is called: Courtroom Sex.

This is when you cannot stand each other any more and your spouse takes you to court and screws you in front of everyone.


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ASK MAMABOOP

September 18th 2008 04:53
Question:
My friend’s husband is best friends with my husband and the only reason I am friends with her is because they were friends to begin with. But over the past 5 years we have become good friends. I know if I tell her my husband will probably not speak to me for getting into their business. But I can’t stand to see him act as if nothing ever happened, and she goes about blind to the fact that her husband is scum.

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art.com

September 17th 2008 07:59
I want to give thanks to art.com for providing most of the art on this page. In my opinion they have the best site on the web for art and prints and a great price. You may think I am being paid for this...but no! They are not paying me. I just adore that site and want you to see it for yourself.
I have had a lot of positive comments about the art here and just wanted to address that. So thanks ...art.com!
female head
Female Head
female eyes open
Female Eyes Open

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What Men Want

September 17th 2008 05:56
Many women ask the question "What do men want?" to their women friends and sometimes they'll ask their guy friends. If women would approach men with a few simple, effective guidelines, they'll be much more likely to get exactly what they want from men: a fulfilling, healthy, happy relationship:

Here are the guidelines:

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Men's Fantasies!

September 16th 2008 11:44
Women talk about this all the time amongst themselves; they wonder what their men are thinking about during sex. When men fantasize about women (especially in bed) we are always wondering what type of fantasy is it. So I went searching and talking to others and here is what I found out.
Urban Romance
Urban Romance

The first is the fantasy of multiple partners. Many men report a fascination with the idea of making love to more than one woman at a time. Oh duh, like we didn’t know this one. Another quite common adjustment on the variety theme is the anonymous partner. There is something about the nameless, mysterious woman who reverses the stereotypical male role and turns the hunter into the hunted, that most men find appealing. It is probably worth mentioning that while these fantasies are common, indeed virtually uniform among men, they are nevertheless fantasies, and as such are seldom actually acted out. Just as we have all fantasized about being a cop so we could arrest the jerk that cuts us off on the freeway, or finally telling some obnoxious authority figure how you really feel about his deadline and reports, we all accept that these things are generally best left in the realm of fantasy. Our conscience says, "Gee it sure would feel nice - but it's just not worth it."
While we can generally categorize all manner of various particular acts or sexual preferences under the heading of fetishes, there are several that are commonly enough reported by men as fantasies to warrant their inclusion here. While too numerous to list in any comprehensive fashion, they include for example such garden-variety deviations from good old missionary style sex as, being tied up, having sex in public places, and rough sex


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Breaking Up Made Easy!

September 14th 2008 09:36
Consider these 10 steps to breaking it off:

1. Make sure it's what you want


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Drive Him Wild With Dirty Talk!

September 13th 2008 04:04
To help you get started with how to talk dirty to a guy, I want to give you some dirty talk examples that will help YOU get him eating from the palm of your hand in no time!
Men often get bored with routine, and when they get bored, they get into trouble and tend to wonder off sometimes. So in an effort to keep his eyes on you and you alone here are a few suggestions.
It's important you learn how to please him so he takes good care of you, and you both have a great time in your relationships. Because that's really the point isn't it


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Tips To Spice Up Your Sex Life!

September 11th 2008 07:37
Here is what millions of women, and some men, get every night. After they come home from work, had some dinner with their partner who, maybe helped maybe watched his partner clean up the kitchen afterwards, sat in his comfy chair and watched the telly a few hours with barely a word spoken. Then once in bed and the lights were out he begins to paw you like frenzied grizzly bear, yanking at your nightie, foul breath in your face, and he expects you to be “in the mood.” At moments like these don’t you feel more like a zoo keeper wrestling with an animal then a lover? If he isn’t the type of man who will read this with you maybe you can just leave it out some place where he will have to see it, like taped up over the toilet! It can’t hurt. Even if only one or two suggestions gets through it will be an enormous boost to your sex life!
Man & Woman
Man & Woman

1. While your love is cooking or washing the dishes go up behind him or her, and wrap your arms around their waist. Nuzzle your face into their neck and tell them how much you love them. If you're lucky they will turn around to give you a kiss. Or offer to help them with those dirty dishes so they will be finished faster and you can get to the fun part of the evening. Jeez, don’t just stand there watching them work!
2. When walking past your love (around the house, in the yard, while shopping, while at a barbeque, etc.) make it a point to touch them. This could be a quick touch to the shoulder or waist, or a kiss on the cheek. But be careful with these touches, make them light, if you are too rough she may interpret them as a hit or slap and then you are not getting any sex for a long time


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Screwing Up Your Romance!

September 10th 2008 02:25
SCREWING UP YOUR ROMANCE
Have you ever dated someone and after awhile you just wanted them to go away…and fast? But they never seemed to get the idea no matter what subtle hints you tried to drop. You knew they were the last person on earth you would ever spend your life with, so the merciful thing would be to cut them free. But no, they dug their heels in and pretended not to notice anything you said or did to brush them off. With some folks you just have to get down and dirty for them to see the handwriting on the wall. For those of you who have never been there before here are some suggestions that may help in getting rid of that tenacious unwelcome suitor.
Unrequited Love
Unrequited Love


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Words of Love

September 8th 2008 23:36
Words of Love

It’s never too late to live happily ever after


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Cheating Partners!

September 8th 2008 01:13
This is something every woman needs to know and be open minded about. If you suspect your partner is cheating there's a good chance he is. Trust your instincts! Don't be like the woman who came home early and found her husband in bed with another woman and after a bitter confrontation he says "who are you going to believe? Me or your lying eyes?" Don't allow yourself to be backed into that type of verbal corner. Here are some signs to point you in the right direction. Be smart, be prepared!
Signs of a Cheating Husband
1) He carries condoms, and you are on the pill


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Love Spell

September 7th 2008 02:09
Many people have asked me about love spells and do they work. I think it is the Law of Attraction that makes them work. So if saying a few words out loud or going through a small ritual at home helps you gather your thoughts and focus your energies to make your own Law of Attraction work than it can't hurt. So if you would like I have gathered a few to help you along. I will post one now and depending on the response I may post a few later in the week. Happy Hunting!!
Gypsy
Gypsy

To Draw a New Lover to You
(Attraction Charm


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Top Ten Flirting Tips!

September 6th 2008 02:21
#1: Repeated contact...at least three separate verbal or non-verbal clues need to be given. Why? The first time he's going to look around and make sure it's really him that you are flirting with. The second, he knows it's him and he gets flushed and pleased. (At this point he'll probably walk by you and at least smile..he's checking you out a little more.) The third time you can express interest-by introducing yourself, or commenting on his tie, or waving from across the room. Now he knows you are open to meeting and it will be a cinch.

#2: Whisper...it always gets their attention. Ask them if you can tell them a secret...Then whisper in their ear: 'I just love your tie...can I buy it from you when you are done with it


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To Kiss A Star!

September 5th 2008 19:38
Momma Boop has a new blog about kissing. So, it got me to thinking..... Now, this is one of my favorite things to do. Not because it is sexual, but it is so very personal. ..You can tell a great deal about someone by the way they kiss....If they are a dominate person, or a soft and gentle person. Which brings me to my point, if you could kiss a celebrity...who would it be?? I myself would travel back in time to kiss Elvis Presley...just to look at his nice full lips...and we already now he was a passionate man...but damn I bet he was a good kisser!! And maybe I would hop in my time machine even further back to Valentino...whew...just thinking about his lips gives me chills!! Who would you kiss??
Elvis Presley
Elvis Presley
Valentino
Valentino



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Top Ten Love Quotes

September 4th 2008 23:17
Top 10 Love Quotes


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Married or Unmarried?

September 4th 2008 00:48
One of the most startling statistics to emerge recently was the for the first time in American history there are more unmarried households than married ones. Now I am not one to be too critical about other's personal choices but as for me I just want to throw a few things out there for discussion. First, I cannot understand why any woman would want to wash and clean up after some man when she doesn't have to? Maybe it's just me but I see no reason to do a man's laundry, wash dirty dishes, and worry about what to feed him after working all day long if I do not have a license and plenty of bling forcing me to.

Now I know what you may be thinking...you may say I am just a user or a gold digger! Well, it sure beats being a personal house maid for free. Second, it's all about how much you place on your personal worth. And I am worth a lot! So if a man wants my companionship he is going to pay for it and he will have to show that license as an indusement to make me even enter the kitchen. I work all day too. Who's rinsing out my dainties, cooking my dinner and giving me foot massages at night? I can tell you who is....the man who signed the license.
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Teenage, Pregnant and Alone

September 2nd 2008 18:46
Good Lord, it has happened again to another high profile teenager (via a famous family member) and has caused a firestorm in the press for being unmarried and pregnant. Just like Jamie Lynn Spears the country is now outraged that the seventeen year old Bristol Palin, daughter of Sarah Palin, Alaskan Gov. and Presidential Running mate of John McCain, has been confirmed to be pregnant and is unwed. She declared she is keeping the baby and has yet to identify the baby's father.
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teenage pregancy, family

This seems to be a condition a lot of young girls are finding themselves in today and not just the girls in the south either. Alaska is about as far from Louisiana as one can get not to mention that Gloucester, Mass. is nowhere near the trailer parks of Alabama. So it seems this is a national issue and not a localized one. No family is immune to having their teenage daughter drop the P-bomb on them over dinner. "Mom, I'm pregnant." "What! Who's the daddy?" A shocked mother responds. "I'm not sayin." The defiant daughter announces. What's a mother to do? Strangle her? Against the law! Send her away to live with relatives? No! Just try to love and accept what it done. Love is all that can save a bad day like this.

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Secret Kisses

September 1st 2008 21:28
Lips
lips, kisses
Do you have secret kisses for someone special? Share your secrets with me....I promise not to tell anyone. We all dream of someone to share our special hot wet kisses with. Let's talk about it.
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